If you are familiar with erotic massages, you may have heard of
tantric massage therapy. The lingam massage is a type of tantric massage that involves massaging the penis.
The aim of the lingam massage isn’t solely to have an orgasm. It is more about creating a sexual, spiritual, meditative experience.
In this article, we explain what a lingam massage is, how to practice it on yourself or on your partner, and what its benefits are.
Lingam Massage: A brief summary
Lingam is the ancient Sanskrit word for penis and literally translates to “wand of light.” Lingam massage is therefore a type of
sensual massage that focuses on male genitalia and the surrounding areas (thighs, buttocks, testicles, perineum and the
Male G-Spot). Though the recipient will likely reach orgasm, ejaculation is not the goal of lingam massage. Instead, this tantric practice is an exercise in controlling your sexual urges and making the pleasure last as long as possible. The massage recipient will experience multiple internal orgasms that are much more intense than a “typical” orgasm.
What happens during a Lingam Massage session?
If you are looking to experience a lingam massage in Montreal, we recommend that you make an appointment at an
erotic massage salon. Professional masseuses are trained in all the lingam massage techniques to make sure you reach cloud nine.
If you ever wish to practice this type of massage on your partner after having tried it out on yourself, follow the steps below:
Create a relaxing atmosphere
Creating a positive atmosphere and being in a good mood can help to make a lingam massage an enjoyable experience for yourself or for you and your partner.
Here’s some ways to help create a warm, inviting environment:
- Dim the lighting
- Light some candles
- Put on some calm, relaxing music
Bring massage oils
Using massage oils during a session has many advantages. They are moisturizing and soothing, especially for those who have sensitive skin or suffer from problems caused by too much friction.
Additionally, fruit scents like orange blossom help to relieve stress while eucalyptus soothes achy muscles after exercise.
During a lingam massage, fragrant oils can help to increase both your partner’s awareness and arousal.
Whichever type of oil you go for, we advise you to opt for something natural and hypoallergenic, such as:
- Olive oil
- Coconut oil
- Almond oil
Start the massage off slowly
Once your body and mind are ready, start off the lingam massage by stimulating the peripheral areas, such as:
- The lower abdomen
- The upper thighs
- The inner thighs
Move your hands gradually over the skin, setting the scene for a sensual experience. If you’re doing a lingam massage and you are aware of your partner’s erogenous zones, massaging those areas can help trigger that initial pleasure without moving too quickly.
Don’t forget that the aim of a lingam massage is to go slowly and deeply feel every pleasant sensation.
Increase arousal
Now it’s the time to move from the erogenous zones to the most sensitive areas. Start with the testicles, taking the time to massage them as gently as possible.
If you or your partner enjoys it, the perineum can become another sensual area to explore.
When you are ready to continue, move your massage down to the shaft of the penis, using gentle stroking movements.
Try new things
If your partner agrees to it, consider adding sensual prostate stimulation to your lingam massage.
To find the prostate, gently insert a finger into the anus, tilting your fingertip towards the front of the body. Once you have located it, you can use gentle bounds of pressure to stimulate the area.
For some people, prostate stimulation can even lead to a pleasurable prostate orgasm!
Maximize the experience
When you feel an orgasm approaching or notice that your partner is close to orgasm, take a moment to withdraw and focus on another area of the body. You can continue this practice throughout the massage as long as you or your partner are enjoying it.
If your partner orgasms as soon as the massage begins, reassure them, and continue the massage. Don’t feel pressured to end the session. A sensual lingam massage can still be pleasurable even after an orgasm.
What are the benefits of lingam massage?
On top of the obvious pleasure this
type of massage provides, the lingam technique offers a host of benefits for your mental, physical and sexual health. With a lingam massage, you can:
Reduce stress
When done by professionals in an erotic massage parlour, a lingam massage stimulates blood circulation and reduces everyday stress. Remember: the masseuse begins with a gentle full-body massage before getting to the “wand of light.” You therefore have plenty of time to reach a more relaxed state of mind and body before advancing to more sensitive areas. The experience will help you forget life’s stressors and be 100% in the present moment.
Rediscover your masculine sexuality
This phallic massage technique helps men rediscover their sexuality by learning to experience pleasure differently. Instead of trying to reach orgasm at all costs, the massage recipient takes the time to feel every sensation and savour each moment.
Spice up your relationship
Are you looking for a
special way to surprise your man? Performing a lingam massage is a great way to spend a hot and heavy night of passion. Your man will experience sexual bliss like he’s never known, and you’ll
spice up your relationship by trying something new.
Experience an erotic massage at Massage Adagio
Lingam massage is an erotic massage technique that is designed to prolong male sexual pleasure. It’s a great way to rediscover your sexuality and experience new and exciting sensations. Have you always wanted to try an erotic massage in Montreal? At Massage Adagio, our hostesses welcome you with open arms. We promise an experience you’ll never forget.
Make an appointment today!
