Sometimes, life as a couple can get a little monotonous. That’s not bad or abnormal. It’s actually a sign that your relationship is stable and comfortable.
In a long-term relationship, it’s natural to want to switch things up, enjoy new experiences and rekindle your passion. That’s why some couples turn to swinging, a practice that’s becoming more and more popular.
Is swinging right for you? Here’s everything you need to know about the practice and whether it might be good for your love life.
What is swinging?
Swinging is a sexual practice that some couples engage in. Participating couples meet up and swap partners for the evening to have sex.
Many swingers organize private parties that several couples are invited to. Others go to swingers’ clubs to meet likeminded couples.
Swinging has long been considered almost taboo, but it is starting to be more widely accepted. The practice used to be popular with older couples looking to spice up their sex lives
, but it is now attracting young people who want a more open sort of relationship.
How to know if swinging is right for you
Interested in trying swinging, but not sure whether the practice is right for your relationship?
Wanting to try swinging often stems from a mutual desire to break out of the routine
and be sexually open. If both people in the relationship share this desire, it’s a sign that swinging might be worth trying.
Swinging gives you the chance to pursue your sexual fantasies
and satisfy your curiosity without betraying or hurting your partner. If you and your partner want to explore your sexuality with others without compromising your love life, swinging is definitely an option to consider.
The most important thing is not to put pressure on your partner or feel pressured to try swinging in order to save your relationship. Swinging only works if both partners give their free, informed and enthusiastic consent
and jealousy is put aside entirely.
If that seems impossible to you, it’s probably best to forget about swinging.
Test the waters by trying erotic massage
Want to enjoy a new sensual experience with your partner, but feel not quite ready to try swinging? You can test the waters by booking an erotic massage for couples
at Massage Adagio.
Sensual massage is a great way to break out of your sexual routine and will help you determine whether swinging is an option for you. Our hostesses will give you a warm welcome and an experience you won’t soon forget.
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