3 ideas to introduce you to BDSM

First of all, what is BDSM, exactly? BDSM is an umbrella term that includes bondage and discipline, domination and submission, and sadism and masochism. These are a set of sexual practices between consenting adults, many of which involve one partner acting in a more dominant way while the other submits. Sadism and masochism are a subset that mixes pleasure with pain. Good BDSM emphasizes safety and consent at all times. Intrigued? Our girls have come up with 3 ideas to introduce you to BDSM.

1. Test the waters with erotic massage

A great way to start experimenting with BDSM is to book an erotic massage at a reputable salon. Although salons have rules that must be followed and offer less freedom than you might have with a partner, you can always select a masseuse who shares your interests and can provide you with a more personalized experience. For example, if you think you may be submissive, you can book a session with a dominant masseuse. Conversely, if you feel more dominant, you can choose a submissive masseuse. Erotic massage is an ideal way to take your first step into the world of BDSM.

2. Bondage: a great way to get kinky with your partner

Bondage is a great starting place for couples who want to break out of their routine and try BDSM. Bondage involves one partner tying up the other using handcuffs, a tie, rope or any other object that prevents them from moving. The goal is to tease and caress the tied-up person and drive them wild. Bondage lets the“dom” savour being in control while the “sub” enjoys being at their mercy.

3. Discipline: a more advanced BDSM practice

Once bondage seems almost routine, it may be time for you and your partner to try out something new, like discipline. Discipline and punishment are concepts that are very prevalent in BDSM culture. The idea of one partner “punishing” the other for doing something “wrong” can be very exciting for both parties. The punishments are, of course, erotic in nature and are determined by the dominant partner. They can range from submitting to a particular sexual position to spanking, trying out new sex toys, etc. When trying discipline or any type of BDSM, it’s important to practice consent and safety. In BDSM, this often includes the use of a safeword, which a partner can speak at any time to stop play if they are uncomfortable or their boundaries are crossed.

BDSM 101 with Massage Adagio

Does this article make you want to give BDSM a try? Great! It’s a normal, healthy and exciting way to explore your sexuality. To take your first step into the world of BDSM, book a session at Massage Adagio. You can take your pick of our girls and find one that will help you discover the pleasures of domination or submission.

ADAGIO is a welcoming salon offering extremely sensual erotic massages for men, women and couples. You will be charmed by ADAGIO's relaxed ambiance and entirely renovated salons. With more than 14 years experience, ADAGIO knows how to provide you with quality service.