The libido, or sexual appetite, is defined by the physical desire that human beings feel that provokes the desire for erotic pleasure. This feeling can differ greatly from one person to another and its intensity fluctuates and changes over the course of a lifetime.
For example, many couples who have been together for years may not have the same sexual appetite as they did in the first few months of the relationship, and this is completely normal.
If you want to reinvigorate the passion of yesteryear in your relationship and stimulate your partner’s sexual appetite, consider the following tips.
Try to understand the reasons for decreased sexual desire
Sometimes a simple change in daily life can be enough to decrease a person’s libido. This may be a hormonal change (new contraceptive, ovulation, etc.), or it may have something to do with mental health (stress, anxiety). For example, your partner may be experiencing a stressful situation at work that could prevent them from completely letting themselves go in bed.
Try to offer support by talking with your partner about the reasons behind their change in sexual desire to try to figure out how to deal with it together. In some situations, stress can be reduced by going to a massage therapist
or exercising. Working together to find a solution to this situation can bring you even closer to your partner.
Try new experiences to spice up your sex life and boost your libido
After a few years in a relationship, it is entirely possible and even normal for sexual passion to be a little less intense than it was at the beginning of the relationship. The first few months of a relationship are so exciting because you are trying new things with a new partner. When this feeling of novelty wears off, a routine can set in and eventually become monotonous.
In an effort to regain some of that former excitement, you may want to try new experiences in bed with your partner. Some couples try out new sexual positions or naughty accessories, while others opt for a couple’s erotic massage
. The possibilities for spicing up your sex life are truly endless.
Make small gestures that might surprise your partner in your daily life
Although moving in together is a big and exciting step for a couple, the magic in the relationship can quickly fade after some time together. Keep some of the mystery alive in your relationship by thinking about making small, surprising gestures that will charm your partner.
For example, you could surprise him by cooking his favourite meal, preparing a hot and relaxing bath
for him after his day at work, etc. Small gestures like these will certainly put a smile on your partner’s face and could help rekindle your sexual flame!
Stimulate libido in your relationship by choosing the best erotic massage parlour in town
There are several ways to stimulate your partner’s sexual appetite if you notice a change in them. We hope that these tips will help you nourish the passion in your relationship!
If you want to experience a new adventure with your sweetheart, we invite you to contact us
. At Massage Adagio, you will surely enjoy an unforgettable massage experience!